In A Nutshell

In many ways I would describe myself as a paradox. I'm a grown and adult man--which allows me to be childlike. I can be quite serious at times, but I'm most often described as funny. I am both laid back and intense, non-judgemental but with high standards. And not paradoxically, I am warm, caring, nurturing, sensual, and a good listener. A gentle and nice man. I know how to give and how to receive.I have many good friends both male and female and they, with my family, are what I value most in life. The two treasures of my life (grown daughters) no longer live with me, but we do see one another often

The One I Am Looking For

I enjoy the company of a really bright, assertive woman who knows her own mind, and who does not believe that intelligence and femininity are mutually exclusive. Someone who depending on the circumstance can be playful, serious, contemplative, social, solitary, artistic, sexy, nurturing, nurturable, or silly. She is an attractive, not at all heavy, really smart, upbeat woman who likes getting out and doing things and also likes staying home and just being.

Some degree of impulsiveness is good too, so what are you waiting for?

I'd Just Like to Add

My interests include photography, travel, good conversation, a bit of dancing, exploring the meaning of life,and judaism (though I am not religious). Though this little exercise doesn't reflect it I am witty with a gift (oy) for punning. I enjoy words and word play and on occasion do the Times xword puzzle. Yes, a game of scrabble would be fun. As would a long walk, bicycling, and a game of tag. When I'm around (little) kids, I'm as likely to be found on my hands and knees playing with them as standing and talking with the older kids. I'm looking for an attractive, not at all heavy, really smart, upbeat woman who likes getting out and doing things and also likes staying home and just being. My doctorate is in Biology and I used to work as a University Administrator. Currently I have a new career as a Divorce Mediator and sometimes work as a Personal Life Coach. I recently (self) published a book of poetry called Seasons of the WoIf and it's actually available; very exciting. If you think we might make a match please contact me. I look forward to hearing from you.

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Q. What is your all time favorite movie? and why?

Q. Do you like the outdoors? What do you enjoy doing the most?

Q. Do you like to travel? If you could go anywhere where would you?

Q. If you had to leave everything behind but got to choose 5 things to take with you what would they be?

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